You are living the life you
decided to live. This statement might be very bitter to swallow for most people
but, it is actually the truth. The fact that you don’t want to hear it doesn’t
make it less true. Most people have consciously or unconsciously decided to
settle for the average life and, strangely enough they are the first to
complain about their life not moving forward. Things are never going to change
until you make a conscious decision to make it happen. For those who are not
happy to hear the above statement I am going to say this: if you don’t like
something change it, take action to get what you want.
Most people live the life
they hate, work the jobs they dislike, are married to people they despise and
are friends with people they can stand just because they have convince
themselves that they cannot live without these things and people. The kind of
action you take is in direct alignment with your thinking. If you want to be a
pilot and, you believe that it will take a long time and a lot of money you
don’t have to achieve that goal, you will never take any action to make it
happen because your mind has convince you that you cannot do it. You made the
mental decision to give up on your dream because you think it is outside of
your reach, therefore you will not take any action towards making it a reality.
You cannot make the decision
to settle for an average life and be the first to complain because; complaining
will not help you change it. The only way to refuse to accept the average life
is to discover your true passion and actively pursue it to lead a fulfil life.
The difference between those who lead a fruitful and successful and those who
have a dull life is that the first group of people have made the decision to
discover their purpose in life. Besides discovering their true calling, the
successful people have decided to take action to have a life full of passion.
Passion is developed when you are doing something you like, something that come
natural to you. When you are doing something you like, you can only improve as
you continuously do it. The success you are making through your actions is
attracting even more success and making you in the process a success magnet.
Following from the above, it
difficult to understand why people complain when they are responsible for the
state of their affairs. If you are in a hot room with no air condition and you
are feeling uncomfortable the most sensible thing you should do is to leave the
room to get air outside. You will leave the room so you can breathe easier and
be comfortable. Unfortunately when you
apply this example to most people life, they choose to stay in a very
uncomfortable and sweaty room while complaining of the fact that there is no
air condition. They consciously refuse to seek a more conducive environment and
blame others to be responsible for their predicament. You have the option of
choosing a better life, don’t settle for the average one but if you decide to do
so don’t blame anyone for your average life.
CHRISTIAN
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