THERE IS NO FAILURE ONLY FEEDBACK

Every time you attempt without success to accomplish something or achieve your goal, do you see yourself as failure or do you see it as just a setback teaching you a lesson about you? The way you perceive yourself coupled with the belief in your ability to succeed will ultimately determine whether you succeed in life or not. Some people see themselves as a failure because they have try unsuccessfully to achieve a goal therefore are reluctant to try again because they don’t think they will ever achieve that particular goal. You should never see yourself as a failure if you ever want to be successful in life, because you will stop yourself from taking the actions that could have changed your life. There are no failure for those who truly want to succeed, they experience setbacks from time to time like everybody and use the lesson learned to improve their next move.

Life is a very troublesome journey where those succeed have to know what they want and be ready to fight for it until they get it. Only by taking action every single day will they be able to achieve their worthy goals. Many will try and fail, a lot of them will give up trying again but those who finally succeed have simply refuse to quit trying until their reach their target. Setbacks are sometimes crushing for those who are trying to succeed but mostly to their ego, because those who experience setbacks have not actually lost anything on the contrary they have learnt a valuable lesson about themselves. Each time you go through heartache trying to achieve your goals, you are sometimes much more concerned about what others will say about you than what you think about yourself.

Do you see yourself as you are or through the eyes of others? If you are unfortunately thinking more about what others will say about your latest attempt than what you want out of life, you are not in control of your life. Failure is much more permanent than the setbacks you are going to experience in the course of your life. You are going to learn each time you fail to achieve your goals which feed back into your existing knowledge to improve your understanding of what you are trying to do. You begin to worry about failure when you stop seeing it as valuable feedback helping move forward. The truth is you will never succeed if you are prepared to accept failure as part of the package. You will only take actions in the direction of your goals if it is okay for you to experience setbacks.

It is absolutely true that there is no failure in life, only feedbacks. The problem is most people don’t believe in this assertion and that is why they are afraid to take actions because they don’t want to fail. You are the only one who can see yourself as failure, because it doesn’t matter what others think about you, they cannot decide for you the direction of your life. By making a conscious effort to learn from all your life experiences, by accepting the feedbacks deriving from you multiple attempts to achieve your goals, you will never see setbacks as failure but only feedbacks. Simply refuse to quit no matter the number of setbacks and you will guarantee your success. It is also the reason why someone defined success as getting up one more time than you have fallen.

CHRISTIAN